Why being an LGBTQ+ wedding photographer is about more than the hashtag #loveislove

A photo from an LGBTQ+ friendly wedding photographer

LGBTQ+ Wedding Photographer

In the world of wedding photography, it's about more than just capturing beautiful moments – it's about celebrating love in all its forms and colors. As a wedding photographer, I have the privilege of being part of the happiest days in my couples' lives. For me, it has always been a given that love is love, regardless of who loves whom. But I had to learn that being a wedding photographer for LGBTQ+ weddings is about much more than just using the hashtag #loveislove.

My personal learning process

I still remember how strange it initially felt to mark my business as "LGBTQ+ friendly" on Google. Why should I emphasize something so obvious? Love is universal, I thought, and shouldn't need special labeling. At that point, I had already had several same-sex couples in front of my camera. But my perspective changed radically when I heard an inspiring lecture by Martina Lanotte at the Way up North Convention in Florence.

LGBTQ+ Couples, captured by LGBTQ+ friendly Photographer Marco Palmer Photography
LGBTQ+ Couple Photoshoot in Mainz

Authenticity and Trust

The lecture opened up a new world of understanding and empathy for me. It highlighted how important it is for people from the LGBTQ+ Community to feel safe and accepted – especially on such an important day as their wedding. For many LGBTQ+ couples, it is not a given that they are welcome everywhere. The fear of discrimination and rejection is unfortunately still real and ever-present. In this context, a clear designation as "LGBTQ+ friendly" can be a strong signal of safety and support.

This moment of realization was a turning point for me. It's not just about photographing LGBTQ+ weddings – it's about being an active ally. For me, it means actively showing that I and my photography are a safe space for all couples, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity.

The Importance of Visibility and Acceptance

Since that lecture in Florence, my approach has changed. I have learned that as a wedding photographer for LGBTQ+ weddings, it is important to be sensitive and respectful of the needs and wishes of my LGBTQ+ couples. It is essential to work inclusively and ensure that every couple feels comfortable and accepted in my presence. This experience has taught me that it's not just about the aesthetics of the photos, but also about the stories and emotions they tell.

LGBTQ+ wedding photos captured by wedding photographer Marco Palmer Photography
Wedding LGBTQ+ Couple in Mainz, captured by wedding photographer Marco Palmer Photography
Marrying as an LGBTQ+ couple, with the right wedding photographer

Conclusion

I am very grateful to Martina for these insights and proud to offer my photography and videography as an LGBTQ+ friendly wedding photographer. Every moment I capture for LGBTQ+ couples is a celebration of love and diversity, and that is something that goes far beyond a simple hashtag #loveislove.

If you are looking for a photographer who captures your love and your story with empathy and respect, then I would be very happy to get to know you. Let's create unforgettable memories together that celebrate your unique love.

Tip: if you are looking for other great LGBTQ+ friendly wedding service providers, feel free to check out these:

Men's outfitter | BIRKHOVEN Atelier Zimmer, Wiesbaden
Bridal fashion studio | Elas Bräute, Mainz
Independent wedding officiant | Vertraute Worte
Make-up & Styling | Make it Isi
Flowers | Sophia Kern, Mainz
Catering | Haas Catering


Portrait of wedding photographer from Mainz, Marco Palmer

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I am very much looking forward to learning more about you and your plans.

 

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